At regards to sex attraction, guys really want a challenge : not as things culturally taught : no, that is biologically programmed inside our instincts. Go back to will ancient Greeks and those prior to them : return to caveman times and it had been still real. We need a challenge towards feel just like guys, towards feeling appealing, also to be attracted.Really because you've been harmed, or even dropped as part of long ago and the taker doesn't mean that you must stop to be the giver : that you must become cool, complex, mean, cruel, thoughtless, or even unforgiving yourself. I noticed way too many guys burnt simply by bad dates to relationships move to the opposite of the type, caring nature, and become jaded.